2 weeks ago
“He wasn’t my type. He was nerdy. He was wearing Converse. And he talked like a robot. But it had been over a year since anyone had paid attention to me. And I was enjoying our conversation. I never told him that I had a daughter. I just wanted to be ‘that girl at the brewery.’ For one afternoon, I didn’t want to be the young, single mother. And it was nice. It was nice to feel wanted again. When he asked if we could go out sometime, I didn’t even hesitate. But I started feeling nervous as soon as I got home. Because I started thinking about all the places a date could lead, and I knew I had to tell him. So I sent him a text. It said: ‘You should know I have a daughter. Things aren’t good with her father. I’m not asking you to fill that role, but if you want to cancel the date-- we can.’ There were twenty minutes of silence. And then he replied: ‘It is what it is.’ Just like a robot. Then he wrote: ‘If the date sucks, we never have to talk again.’ We made plans to meet at a famous brunch place. They didn’t even serve alcohol, which made everything twice as awkward. We agreed to take it slow. And to just have fun with things. He made it very clear that he wasn’t in a place where he wanted to be a dad. And that remained his official stance for about three months, until he met her. It’s been over two years now. So he’s been there her entire life. They’re obsessed with each other. She constantly wants to talk with him about everything. She wants me to call him when she farts. She wants to be a Wildcat fan because he went to Arizona. And when we find a shell on the beach, she’ll pick it up. But it’s always for him—not me. And he loves that little girl. But that’s not surprising. What’s surprising is that he loves me. Roo is easy to love. She’s so young. She doesn’t withdraw or want space. She doesn’t have scars. She’s never been abandoned. She accepts love without question, and she gives it without question. They love each other so much. So much that it makes me nervous. Sometimes I’ll ask him: ‘Do you just love me because you don’t want to lose her?’ And he’ll say: ‘No. I love her a ton, and I love you a ton.’ He always says it very calmly. Just like a robot.”
Definitely a family! Remember the reason he loves her so much is because he lobes you that much. ❤️Sometimes you can not question what happens to us just accept the blessings that Gods sends us.😍
Pure real mean just like roboT😍
My husband’s parents met when he was about two similar situation his mom was young and his biological father a jerk. I never knew who my husband affectionately calls “pop” is not his biological father until my husband told me. His parents have been married over 35 years.
You guys sure do look like a beautiful family! 😊
@inzayne @margafierce , I am about to cry now
@kaylaxxmarie_ this one tugged on my heart strings
adorable 💖
My husband is on the autism spectrum and he is my best friend and the best daddy to our adopted daughter
bonus dads ❤️🗣
They smile the same 😀❤️ beautiful family ❤️😍
She is ahhhdorable 😍😍😍 What a beautiful family! 🙏🏻
Are you sure she is not his? The love in both of thier eyes is eternal 😍
I’m not crying u r 😭
I wish that every (big and little) person would have someone like him in their lives—someone who has shown us what real love looks like, what family is (and isn’t), and who’s a forever reminder that good and loving people are out there.